I'm seeking some advice regarding my possibly sponsoring a relative, who's not ever served in the military nor worked for the federal government, into a military campground. Here's the "rub": this relative graduated high school in the late 60's &, as he was subject to the draft at that time (actually I've been told his was the first class subject to the lottery drawing & his birth date was the first # drawn!). This relative made the decision to apply for Conscientious Objector status, was approved & spend a period working in a hospital as an orderly. Never in the time that I've known him has he ever uttered anything I'd consider disparaging towards those who DID serve, but he does tend to socialize & speak freely. My concern is, as I've noticed that topic #1 at many military campgrounds I've stayed at is "What branch did you serve with?" or "When did you serve?", that the topic could come up &, as I'm a retiree after serving 28 years, I've know many folks who may not be comfortable with someone with the history of "C.O." staying at a military campground.
I understand I could simply say "keep your mouth shut", but I'm curious as to what others who post here might say on this subject? Am I making too much of this OR could I possibly be opening a big "can of worms" here? Thanks in advance for your input!
